Is your romantic relationship lacking that luster? Has it gone stale? Are you in heated conflict?
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Connecting only at a surface level
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Same old, same old
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Recurring patterns and fights looping
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Distance and feeling alone OR feeling attacked
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Unsure about what the future holds
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And more!
You may have already tried:
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Sending signals that aren’t getting picked up
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Getting together and trying to work it out
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Researching online, reading books, or asking friends for advice
If this feels like YOU, then Relation-Ship may be your rocket to more love, connection, and shared purpose. I created this program using best practices from around the globe to get you as much support as possible in as little time as possible – and some cool tools and practices for you to walk away with. I’ll be there with you every step of the way guiding and supporting the both of you to the relationship you deserve.
CLEAR – CONNECT – ALIGN – BUILD
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Clear: Remove blocks from past and present
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Connect: Appreciate and feel each other deeply
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Align: Create a shared vision and plan for the future
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Build: Walk the first steps in your new plan together
In this program, we will walk through this 4-step process:
Hi!
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I’m Nathan and I help couples create more love and intimacy in their relationship. Relation-Ship is my signature 4-step method to help you two go from disconnected and alone to juicy and joyful!
I know this process works. I’ve used it for myself in all my relationships and have seen it work for my coaching clients over the past 8 years. I’ll be right there along side both of you, guiding you through each step of the way.
"Nathan is a breath of fresh air in the field of relationship coaching. He combines his depth of life experience and wisdom with innovative perspectives and approaches to clear the obstacles to true connection and intimacy on all levels. His light and humor is inspiring and so helpful for opening the way to true self-discovery, coherence in relationships, and harmonizing with others as a whole. I highly recommend doing this important work with Nathan as your guide!"
- Kristen Kloostra, Intuitive coach and healer, OmKari.love
In order to deepen intimacy, the past and present must be clear and spacious.
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We will:
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Release any resentments from the past
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Clear any present conflict
What's Inside Relation-Ship
Step #1: CLEAR
Step #2: CONNECT
Now that the space is open and clear, it’s time to connect deeply and intimately.
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We will:
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Use exercises for you to be seen, heard, and celebrated individually
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Practice embodied techniques to connect at a mind, body, soul level collectively (clothes on, this is not physically sexual)
With deep intimacy in place, its time to get on the same page and set up the future for success.
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We will:
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Create a shared life plan
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Make agreements for behavior
Step #3: ALIGN
Step #4: BUILD
Now that the path is built, its time to walk it.
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We will:
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Discuss your progress after having taken the first steps of your new plan
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Make any adjustments to plan based off any learnings
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Ensure you are ready to go off with this relationship on your own!
"I call Nathan when there’s something electric in my being that wants to be expressed. Whether I’m feeling conflict or joy, his presence is one that allows all of me. In other words, if I need a podium, he’s a fully encompassing theatre for my song. I can’t imagine anything more important for repair in a relationship."
-Ben Morrow, Partnerships Manager, Claimsetter
"I've had a fantastic experience working with Nathan. He always helps navigate my most complex and pressing issues; by the end of each coaching session I have newfound clarity, a better perspective on the root cause of my issue, and a plan to solve it. Nathan is empathetic, intuitive, insightful, and I really enjoy the time we spend together. He's part sherpa, part close confidante, and I appreciate everything he's done for me."
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- Colin, Co-founder, Shelf.io
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How do I know if this is the right program for me?If you are curious, set up a 15min discovery call with me here and let’s explore together. From there, I’d say sleep on it, and see what you feel in the morning.
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Do you guarantee results?No. Your results are 100% up to your commitment and action. I know this process works and I guide from lived experience as someone whose done this work for myself and guided clients successfully in doing the same. I’m here to support, challenge, and hold the space for you to elevate if you are ready to do the work and take action.
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Are scholarships available?I offer a limited number of spots on a sliding scale for BIPOC relationships for whom the program cost presents a financial hardship.
Frequently Asked Questions
I’d love to help you create the love, connection, and depth you want in your relationship. I love helping people be in harmony. Ever since I was child, I was a peacekeeper, willing my parents to get along. And today, my hearts cracks open every time I see barriers come down, people open and find a place where they can meet each other (I got chills as I wrote this!). I’ve been sharing my methods with coaching clients over the past 8 years, and I know they work. What’s more, is that my method is not telling you exactly what to do, it’s a framework and process with time-tested tools and options for you to find YOUR way back home together.
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I look forward to walking with you.
- Nathan
More about Me:
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8 years coaching helping clients relate better to others. Certified with CTI/Co-active, world’s largest and one of the most renown coach training institutes
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15 years in corporate at top firms in management consulting and consumer products brand management
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20 years as a yoga practitioner, certified teacher for 8 years. Breathework and Qi Gong instructor. In process of 5Rhythms dance certification.
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Moved to Asheville, NC last year after 20 years in NYC and 1.5 years nomading around the world
Your Dream Relationship is Waiting – Are you ready to make it a Reality?
What: 4 weekly 90min 2:1 coaching calls
Where: Zoom
When: Sept/Oct 2024
Who: Romantic partners